Rushing In

First I would like to give you a bit of insight into how I seem to work. I have never been the type to date women. I do date women, but I’m not a serial dater per se. I see a lot of women in spurts, but every once in a while I will latch onto one too tightly and try to push the situation faster than it should. And so it went with the Cuban.

As is usually the case, I met her at a club. Also, as usually the case she came up to me and made the first move. She was young and had a great body. Fearless with her dance moves and held nothing back physically. Our first date we had sex. After chasing a girl around for years and not being able to seal the deal I was ready to make a move and date someone. Almost anyone it seemed like.

So after only two weeks of knowing this girl, I called her up and pressured her to tell me if we were dating or not. I needed to know we were exclusive because I was getting pressure from another girl who shouldn’t even be pressuring me about such things. I told the Cuban that she had to make a choice and of course she did the right thing and walked away.

I mean what guy is crazy enough to give an ultimatum to a girl he has only known for two weeks and has only been around three times? As fast as I won her, I lost her just as quickly because I was in a rush. I see her out every once in a while and it is a bit awkward because I feel she still views me as the crazy older man.