No investment, no commitment

In both high school and college I had two long relationships and I was thinking about what made those relationships different than the ones I experienced after school. The answer was simple, I invested my time getting the women in those cases. After school there was no more chasing it was simply meet a woman, talk, go on a date and hookup. End of story.

It has been like that ever since. Dating in school was much more fun because girls seemed to hold out longer. There was an actual challenge behind it all. It was a process where you could clearly sees the steps being taken and mark your progress. You really don’t get that anymore unless you are the type that dates co-workers or tries to hit on the bartenders every week.

Maybe it does exist and I simply avoid it and look for the easy ones. It should be common sense for women to know that when men have to put their time and resources into winning them over then we appreciate them that much more. Yeah we like the easy women because there is no hassles at the beginning, but we won’t care about them for that same reason.

Women bitch and moan all the time about their man and when they tell you the story of how they met it’s clear why he is the way he is.